Churches and Children

“We’ve been got at, and our principal spiritual battle is waking up to that fact”

(Douglas Lockhart, Dark Side of God, 233.)


It’s a free world, so churches have a right to advertise to adults, but when they impose dogma on young children they’re playing dirty. Youngsters are prime targets because  they’re uncritical, trusting, sensitive and pliable, so it’s easy to sell them mythical nonsense. Churches own schools for this very purpose. They’re like a schoolyard bully preying on little kids for their lunch money.


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Children’s heads are filled with prayers, hymns, and stories about heaven, hell, Jesus, sins, death and guardian angels. Behavior is judged in Christian terms, and they’re told Satan is a bad guy out to get them. Hell is a concept promoted without considering the consequences. Junior is offered Jesus as his best buddy, yet Jesus can’t stop children’s nightmares. ( To teach it to children is just plain sick, and in my opinion amounts to child abuse.



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jesus easter eggChristmas toys and Easter eggs, deliberately designed to delight children, are used to sell the Christian story.

Unhealthy convictions inculcated in children can become so embedded in their subconscious minds young people can’t shake them. The consequences can include paranoia, poor self-esteem, anxiety, suppressed self-expression, sexual guilt, closed mindedness, and hurt due to hypocrisy and prejudices. These problems often don’t become apparent until later in life.


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Christian teachers and parents don’t realize that big businesses are using them to fill children’s minds with so much superstitious nonsense it makes the advertising on television look small time. ( The promotional blitz aims to breed brand loyalty to a church. Brainwashed kids become compliant consumers, pliable people willing to part with their cash. They indoctrinate the next generation and the cycle continues. Churches have perfected the process that keeps them powerful by targeting youngsters. They make the corporations of the commercial world look like amateurs.

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I think a fundamental feature of an exceptional education is to give children a picture of their world that’s in tune with reality. They should be taught how to explore all possibilities, and that they control their own destiny, and how to be open-minded to everyone else’s opinions. Kids should also be taught how, not always what, to think.

If we don’t teach children how to think, preachers will teach them how not to, by getting them to turn to an imaginary sky buddy for help. That, in my opinion, is another subtle form of child abuse.



rosaryRepetition in prayers and hymns should be banned, as it’s just mind numbing indoctrination. Surely if the teaching is that terrific, it should sell itself, and be taught without trickery.

If parents insist their kids be coached in Christianity, why not teach it when children are experienced enough to reason for themselves? Geography, trigonometry, and economics are universally regarded as valuable, but nobody believes a five-year-old should be saturated with them. The truth about this is that most church leaders know it’s imperative to get inside little one’s minds early, because their agenda is the institution’s growth, and the child’s welfare is secondary. To use children like that is also child abuse; it’s immoral and inexcusable.

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Some people may accuse me of being cynical, yet have they considered church greed and the reality of indoctrination? I say a culture of church loyalty has been so heavily stamped into some people’s minds they’ve lost touch with the children, and are more concerned about their church losing little clients. Consider what most Christian teachers would think about another denomination teaching the children. The dogma is almost identical, yet they’d be put out, because a “Christian education” is all about shoring up the numbers in their own church.

All youngsters deserve nothing but the best. They’ll have plenty of time in later life to discover the world is sometimes unfair and evil. They don’t deserve to be made victims of corporate crime, particularly by people who they have every reason to trust.

What helps make kids happy, well adjusted, with a healthy self – esteem, is not religion, but love, gentle discipline and stimulation. Consider the happily radiant children found in close-knit communities who have never heard of God or Jesus. Human love and interactions with people are real. Nonsense about an ancient God with odd ideas, whom they can’t see, hear or touch, isn’t.



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2 Responses to Churches and Children

  1. Pingback: Pupil tells Catholic school head: ‘Prayer is for sad people’. He writes of his despair in The Tablet

  2. Michael says:

    Reading this blog about the indoctrination of children reminded me of “The Sight of Hell” written by Father Furniss in the 19th Century. It is claimed that “this Little Volume for Children” contains “a great deal to charm, instruct and edify…” whereas, in fact, it is full of sadistic stories about children being tortured.

    If you are at all squeamish, I urge you NOT to click on this link – you’ll have nightmares for years afterwards.

    More recently, Ron Williams of the Believers Baptist Church has published “The Correction and Salvation of Children” in which he writes:

    “My wife and I have a general goal of making sure that each of our children has his will broken by the time he reaches the age of one year. To do this, a child must receive correction when he is a small infant.”


    “One thing is certain, correction with the rod should and must start very early. In fact, correction with the rod should start much earlier than our contemporary godless and irresponsible society believes is normative…”

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